It is when you don’t know if the love still persists or not, you
start running away from yourself. You hate to be alone. You are scared
to believe the realities facing you.
Long hours on the phone,
cupid stories to giggle and day dreams everything has faded from the
relationship. After years of affair two some don’t really know if they
are meant to be together. It is the in thing today. Seriously I know so
many couples who have stuck together and are now confused and puzzled
when asked if you love each other. Some may say ‘perhaps’ and some may
say ‘that they don’t know’, but no one really have answer to this close
ended question.
My friends know each other since childhood, from
schools to college to work; they have been with each other through thick
and thin. But now when they are asked by their parents to get married,
they freak out. They simply don’t know if they are in love. Or if they
can be together for life. I find this completely ridiculous.
Confusion
is the mother of all bemused decisions we take in our life. And if you
observe it arises especially when you can’t avoid taking decisions. In
love you fumble and restore, this is how an eventful relationship is
like.
It is human psyche that you can’t be with anyone with whom
you can’t share any vibe. You have been together for ages; this
possibility leads you to become a habit to each other. And then it is
when your love rises above its coo-chee-coo level. You may not talk to
each other for long hours. But when you talk it’s your love that
questions the well being, the desires, the anguish, the irritation and
sometimes even your suppressions and confusions.
Talk,
communicate, this is how any relationship can grow beyond. True Love can
never die between anyone; it’s just the priorities that shuffle. And
they will keep on shuffling.
Love should be a habit, it should be
the confluence of two flowing energies meant for experience. Be with a
friend, a friend who brings the best out of you.
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