Tuesday, February 22, 2011

60 going on 16

Why some love stories are so pure but we still can't understand them, even the one involved is virtually unconscious to understand their own drive, and keep steering any fading anxieties. It might be self-annoying falling over and over for all possible rational attributes until the time stride and make you surrender completely. And now the sleeping desires are sitting beside him on his front porch in his old age, slowly rocking back and forth, passing the time, thinking about the end of his life, fast approaching. The st ream of consciousness setting up the story was about what regrets he might have.

Now when he is an old man rocking away the end of his life, somehow might feel like sharing what he has been thinking about the presumptions, the one he never opt ... as openly and honestly as he could. At least some part of that feeling stems from the fact that the adults kept most of their thoughts, and their experiences which have affected from young ones, hidden from their anxious ears. And now wishing and hoping if he would have known then, or perhaps would have explored the same before the black turns Grey. Now knowing things which have been intruding while wondering the untamed anxieties have been a fairly choking experience.

When a child ask question, some of us does amuse him with silly answers, which is likely to confuse him further in future, hoping he will not turn back again with series of connecting questions. Indeed fooling an innocent mind is easy. Mind game of ideas and perceptions is played in the younger years. As the ideas and perceptions are limited to the adults, they strongly insert the same in the building minds, leaving plenty of questions unanswered. The sense of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and the appropriate decision is implanted without the explanations. And later when the answers are explored it’s too late to end the anxieties. Of course we have our values, principles and social attire to carry.

But when a 60 year old man tries to find his way through his untraveled never lands; breaking the barriers, what can we do to intrude his vivacious fantasies. A woman is equally tolerant to these behaviors but lack the extra edge to it, and that is, to fall over lust than compassion. The author in "The Female Brain” has evidently mentioned that, males have double the brain space and processing power devoted to physical needs as females. Just as women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion while men have a small country road, men have O'Hare Airport as a hub of processing thoughts about sex whereas women have the airfield nearby that lands small and private planes. That probably explains why 85 percent of 20 to 30 year old males think about it every fifty-two seconds and women think about it once a day -- or up to three or four times on their most fertile days.

Leaving aside the Physical communication, a psychological unfulfilled frame is responsible for the old age sensitive engagement. It could be a need for a silent companion and could be the rage for a similar frequency. As the age procures the sincerity into the person it is easy for them to realize the responsibility, leaving aside if it is acknowledged.

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